Giving Sex Advice

Last night I experienced something new. I work part time at two of our live venue theatres and last night we had a showing of Jaws (from 1975) with the music played live. As I was helping people find their seats, a man came up to me and said, "Can you help me find my seat? I'm lost. In life and here." I laughed it off and thought nothing of it. People say weird shit to me all the time and I just let it slide, unless they're rude.

Later, he came out into the lobby during the movie and I knew immediately that he was looking for the men's room, so I directed him without prompting. He said, "You're a good one Charlie Brown." Again weird, but nothing offensive.

The third time I saw him, was the strangest of all. He came up to me and he's like, "I'm on the fourth date with this hot guy and I really want to fuck him, but he's like totally drunk. What should I do?" He seemed nice enough, so I was honest. I told him to wait til the next date and make sure sex happens before any drinking happens. "So you think I should just give him a kiss on the cheek and leave it at that?" I said yes and he agreed.

While the Me Too movement is dominated by heterosexual women being assaulted by heterosexual men, it can happen just as easily in the lgbt community and this situation is a prime example. However, putting that aside, wouldn't you want a sex partner who is responsive to your needs as much as you are trying to please them? I mean you might as well masturbate for all the response you get from a drunk person passed out on your bed.